kids & families

Resources for children & families

Gentle guidance to help children and families navigate grief, loss, and difficult transitions together. These tools are meant to start compassionate conversations at home.

Websites & online support

The Dougy Center

The National Grief Center for Children & Families. Offers free downloadable toolkits, podcasts, and activities designed specifically for grieving children, teens, and parents.

dougy.org

Eluna Network & Camp Erin

Provides a comprehensive online resource center and runs Camp Erin, the largest national bereavement camp network for children and teens affected by grief.

elunanetwork.org

Sesame Workshop - Grief

Grounded, gentle videos, stories, and interactive activities featuring familiar Sesame Street friends to help young children understand death and express sadness.

sesameworkshop.org

Explaining death to a child

Developmentally appropriate strategies for helping children understand death.

Explaining death to a child

Not if but when

A website that encourages and supports sharing books/stories about death and loss with children and teens.

Not if but when

Games & interactive tools

The Good Mourning Game

A therapeutic board game designed by grief counselors to help children and families talk openly about loss, memories, and emotions in a supportive, play-filled setting.

The Good Mourning Game

Doggone Grief Game

A playful card & board game created to help younger kids process grief through storytelling, coping prompts, and memory sharing with friendly animal themes. This game is out of circulation but can still be purchased on sites like eBay.

Doggone Grief Game

The Ungame (Families Edition)

A classic, non-competitive conversation game that encourages gentle expression of feelings, memories, and family bonding without judgment or pressure.

The Ungame

TV & movies

Bluey - "Copycat" (TV-Y)

While playing the game of copycat, Bluey finds an injured bird.

Sesame Street - "Farewell, Mr. Hooper" (TV-Y)

Deals with the real-life death of actor Will Lee, who played Mr. Hooper, by gently explaining the permanent concept of death to Big Bird.

Mister Rogers' Neighborhood - "Death of a Goldfish" (TV-G)

Mr. Rogers discovers a dead pet fish, holds a simple burial in the yard, and gently talks about sadness and memories to help young children process grief.

Little Bear (TV-Y)

A gentle, slow-paced animated series about a curious young bear cub who goes on imaginative adventures and learns kind life lessons with his friends and family.

Steven Universe (TV-PG)

A half-human, half-alien boy grows up with a team of magical gemstone guardians, learning to master his inherited powers to save the world through empathy and love.

All Dogs Go to Heaven (G)

A murdered canine con artist escapes back to Earth for revenge but ultimately transforms his life by protecting a young orphan girl.

Brother Bear (G)

An impulsive hunter is magically transformed into a bear as punishment for killing one out of revenge.

Charlotte's Web (G)

A clever spider named Charlotte weaves words into her web to save her young pig friend from being slaughtered.

The Land Before Time (G)

An orphaned brontosaurus journeys with four other young dinosaurs across a dangerous prehistoric landscape to reach the safety of the Great Valley.

The Lion King (G)

A young lion cub named Simba overcomes guilt and exile to reclaim his rightful place as king of the Pride Lands after his evil uncle Scar murders his father.

My Neighbor Totoro (G)

Two young sisters move to the Japanese countryside and befriend a giant, friendly forest spirit while their mother is sick in the hospital.

A Greyhound of a Girl (PG)

An eleven-year-old aspiring chef navigates her grandmother's illness with the unexpected guidance of a mysterious ancestor.

Big Hero 6 (PG)

Hiro and his inflatable healthcare robot, Baymax, team up with his late brother's friends to form a high-tech superhero squad. (There is also a TV series.)

The Book of Life (PG)

Follows a young bullfighter as he journeys through afterlife worlds on the Day of the Dead to win back his true love.

Bridge to Terabithia (PG)

Two lonely school children form a deep friendship and build a secret fantasy world in the woods (Terabithia) to escape their hard lives, until a sudden tragedy changes everything.

Coco (PG)

A young boy travels to the Land of the Dead to learn the truth about his family's musical history.

Fly Away Home (PG)

An orphaned girl and her estranged father bond by using custom-built ultralight aircraft to lead a flock of motherless Canada geese on a safe migration south for the winter. (I checked this out from the library almost weekly as a kid!)

Inside Out & Inside Out 2 (PG)

Follows Riley's emotions, addressing topics like grief, sadness, anxiety, and embarrassment.

Kubo and the Two Strings (PG)

A young Japanese boy with magical musical powers must find his late father's enchanted suit of armor to defeat a vengeful spirit from his family's past.

Marley & Me (PG)

A newlywed couple's lives are upended and enriched by their wild, yet lovable Labrador Retriever.

Onward (PG)

Two teen elf brothers embark on a magical quest to spend one final day with their late father.

Over the Moon (PG)

An animated musical film about a grieving, science-minded girl who builds a rocket ship to the moon to prove the existence of a legendary moon goddess.

Sketch (PG)

A grieving young girl's sketchbook accidentally falls into a magical pond, bringing her chaotic and terrifying drawings to life to terrorize their small town.

Soul (PG)

A middle-school band teacher accidentally dies right before his big jazz break and has to team up with an unborn soul to get back.

Up (PG)

A grieving elderly widower ties thousands of balloons to his house to fly to South America, accidentally bringing a young boy along for an unexpected journey of healing and friendship.

We Bought a Zoo (PG)

A grieving, widowed father buys a run-down zoo with his children to give their family a fresh start and work together to fix and reopen it.

A Monster Calls (PG-13)

A sad young boy learns to accept his mother's terminal illness with the help of a giant, storytelling tree monster.

Clouds (PG-13)

A biographical drama about a teen with terminal bone cancer who pursues his dream of becoming a musician.

Books & reading

Perfectly Imperfect Family by Amie Lands (Ages 1-9)

A boy shares how his family remembers and honors his older sister, who passed away before he was born.

The Little Soul in the Sun by Neale Donald Walsch & Frank Riccio (Ages 2+)

Get help explaining death to children with Sesame Street.

The Rabbit Listened by Cori Doerrfield (Ages 2+)

When something sad happens, Taylor doesn't know where to turn. All the animals are sure they have the answer, but is it what Taylor needs?

The Goodbye Book by Todd Parr (Ages 2-4)

Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost its companion, this book tells a hopeful story about saying goodbye to someone you love.

Something Very Sad Happened by Bonnie Zucker (Ages 2-3)

This book gives very young children a simple, honest way to understand death and the feelings that come with losing someone they love.

How Do You Care for a Very Sick Bear? by Vanessa Bayer (Ages 2-6)

A heartwarming guide on supporting sick friends, inspired by the author's childhood experience with cancer.

Life is Like the Wind by Shona Innes (Ages 2-6)

Introduces the concept of death to young readers by likening life to the ever-moving wind. When the wind is present, things move and fly, but when the wind goes away, things become very still.

Ocean Meets Sky by Eric & Terry Fan (Ages 2-6)

A young boy visits his deceased grandfather, focusing on the power of imagination and the love of one's family.

Stay: A Girl, A Dog, A Bucket List by Kate Klise (Ages 3-5)

Before her dog Eli gets too old, Astrid makes a bucket list so they can make fun memories together.

Cry, Heart, But Never Break by Glenn Ringtved (Ages 3-10)

Aware their grandmother is gravely ill, four siblings make a pact to keep death from taking her away.

The Hare-Shaped Hole by John (Ages 3-5)

A story about the friendship between a turtle and a hare, this book deals with bereavement in a thoughtful, sensitive manner.

The Invisible String by Patrice Karst (Ages 3-7)

A mother tells her two children that they're all connected by an invisible string.

My Yellow Balloon by Tiffany Papageorge (Ages 3-8)

Joey and his beloved balloon do everything together, until the balloon slips off Joey's wrist and flies far, far away.

Saying Goodbye to Lulu by Corinne Demas (Ages 3-7)

A young girl and her dog Lulu are best friends, but when Lulu grows older and weaker, the girl must face the possibility of losing her dear friend.

When I'm Gone by Marguerite McLaren (Ages 3-8)

When someone you love has died, there will be sad days and angry days but also happy days and fun days.

Where Do They Go? by Julia Alvarez (Ages 3-7)

When somebody dies, where do they go? This book is a beautifully crafted poem for children that gently addresses the emotional side of death.

The Rainbow Bridge by Adrian Raeside (Ages 4+)

Seven-year-old Rick and his dog Koko are inseparable. But their relationship changes as Koko grows old and his health declines.

Tiger's Last Roar by Harriet Howe (Ages 4+)

A beautifully lyrical story about grief, the loss of a pet, and the unbreakable bond between child and furry friend.

The Angel with the Golden Glow by Elissa Al-Chokhacy (Ages 4-8)

An angel is chosen to be born as a special child, who will give his family healing in the brief time he's with them.

The Bug Cemetery by Frances Hill (ages 4-7)

It doesn't take much to start a bug cemetery, but when a beloved pet suddenly dies, how do you mourn a special friend?

The Dead Bird by Margaret Wise Brown (Ages 4-8)

One day, the children find a bird lying on its side with its eyes closed and no heartbeat. They are very sorry, so they decide to say goodbye.

The Funeral by Matt James (Ages 4-7)

Norma and her parents are going to her great-uncle Frank's funeral, but when she arrives at church, she is confronted with rituals and ideas that have never occurred to her before.

The Heart and the Bottle by Oliver Jeffers (Ages 4-6)

What happens when that special someone who encourages wonder and magic is no longer around?

The Memory Box by Joanna Rowland (Ages 4-8)

From the perspective of a young child, the author describes what it's like to remember and grieve a loved one who has died.

Missing Mummy by Rebecca Cobb (Ages 4-7)

An exploration of a child's emotions after losing a parent.

The Fall of Freddie the Leaf by Leo Buscaglia (Ages 4-9)

Follows Freddie and his companions as their leaves change with the seasons and the coming of winter, finally falling to the ground with winter's snow.

Ida, Always by Caron Levis and Charles Santoso (Ages 4-9)

One day, Gus learns that Ida is very sick and isn't going to get better. The friends help each other face the difficult news.

Remembering Sundays with Grandpa by Lauren H. Kerstein (Ages 4-8)

Henry and his mom feel Grandpa's love in all his special places. As they remember the many loving moments they shared, they work through their grief.

Rosita and Conchita by Erich Haeger & Eric Gonzalez (Ages 4-8)

Help Conchita celebrate the life of her dearly departed sister as she sets up a memorial altar for her on the Day of the Dead.

The Rough Patch by Brian Lies (Ages 4-8)

Friends don't always stay forever. When even loses his, he destroys the place that meant the most to them.

Peach and Blue by Sarah Kilbourne (Ages 5-8)

One remarkable day, Peach and Blue explore the pond that Blue calls home and awaken each other to a world neither has ever really seen before.

Why Do I Feel So Sad? by Tracy Lambert, LPC (Ages 5-8)

An inclusive, age-appropriate, illustrated kid's book designed to help young kids understand their own grief.

The Worries: Leo Says Goodbye by Jion Sheibani (Ages 5-10)

Leo has always been a happy little boy, but when his Nana dies, he feels very sad. The last thing Leo thinks he needs is a bunch of furry monsters causing chaos!

You're Amazing, Anna Hibiscus! by Atinuke (Ages 6-9)

Anna's twin brothers have boundless energy, but Grandfather is tired and can't stay awake.

Eli Over Easy by Phil Stamper (Ages 8-12)

A heartfelt coming-of-age novel about grief, love, loss, and finding your way forward.

King and the Dragonflies by Kacen Callender (Ages 8-12)

In a small but turbulent Louisiana town, one boy's grief takes him beyond the bayous of his backyard, to learn that there is no right way to be yourself.

Ruby Lost and Found by Christina Li (Ages 8-12)

Thanks to her Ye-Ye's epic scavenger hunts, Ruby knows San Francisco like the back of her hand. But after his death,she feels lost, and it seems like everyone is abandoning her.

When You Trap a Tiger by Tae Keller (Ages 9+)

When Lily and her family move in with her sick grandmother, a magical tiger arrives, prompting Lily to unravel a secret family history.

Duck, Death, and the Tulip by Wolf Erlbruch (Ages 9-18)

A duck strikes up an unlikely friendship wit hdeath.

Since My Brother Died by Marisol Munoz-Kiehne (Ages 10+)

Includes both English and Spanish Translations of a caregivers section, teachers section, and a story for children.

The Thing About Jellyfish by Ali Benjamin (Ages 10-12)

After her best friend dies in a drowning accident, Suzy is convinced that the true cause of the tragedy must have been a rare jellyfish sting.

We Need to Talk About Death by Sarah Chavez (Ages 10-14)

Death is an important part of life, yet it is one of the hardest things to talk about (for adults and children).

The Astonishing Color of After by Emily X.R. Pan (Ages 12+)

Leigh is certain that when her mother died by suicide, she turned into a bird. When visiting her grandparents in Taiwan, she is determined to find her mother.

The House on Mango Street by Sandra Cisneros (Ages 12-16)

A classic coming-of-age novel that tells the story of Esperanza Cordero.

I Am Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter by Erika L. Sanchez (Ages 14+)

A tragic accident on the busiest street in Chicago leaves Olga dead and Julia left behind to reassemble the shattered pieces of her family.

If you're in crisis

If you or someone you love is in immediate danger, please call or text 988 — the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, available 24/7. This page, and this practice, aren't equipped for emergencies.

Need help finding specific books, local support, or resources for a child in your life? Reach out anytime. I'm glad to help you find what fits.

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